Flow vs. Force

How to be the best version of yourself

and connect with your horse on

a soul level

without making any sacrifices

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Let me ask you a question…

Are you happy with the way you and your horse interact?

Are you satisfied with the depth of connection you have with your horse?

Have you ever thought to yourself if your own mood and feelings are linked to the way your horse responds to you?

Maybe you’ve asked yourself… “Why can’t I have an intuitive, harmonious and fun relationship with my horse? Why can’t I have a horse that comes running towards me? Why can’t I seem to enjoy every interaction even though it is not what I had planned?”


What if I told you there’s ONE thing, just ONE thing, that can help you to change your current situation? And I know for a fact that you have it inside you!?

How would you feel if…

… there was a tangible connection between you and your horse? (And I do NOT mean via rope or halter).

… you could enjoy to be at ease around your horse at all times? Feeling fuelled by mutual fun and trust.

… you experience freedom with your horse and feel empowered, no matter what discipline or task you face together?

Imagine if…

… you would feel empowered to establish a mindful, lasting and force-free connection. 

… you had a way to spend time with your horse that is in alignment with you.

… your horse would help you to become more aware of yourself and live in the present moment.

… you and your horse would naturally achieve whatever you both feel like with ease and flow.

Hey, Steffi here.

I have made it my mission to empower horses and their owners in order to establish a mindful, lasting and force-free connection. 


By appreciating you and your horse as the individual personalities that you are and helping you to bring out the best in you both. No force. No cookie cutter solutions.

After my BSc and MSc in Equine Science (UK) I realised that, whilst Science is a huge aspect when it comes to horses, there is also this other part which often plays an even bigger role: and that’s you. From the way you treat yourself to the way you treat your horse.

Sometimes all it takes is a little shift in perspective.

It wasn’t always this easy for me with my own horses. Bee wouldn’t let me touch her at first and once I got over this obstacle, Sun really showed me what she thought of my stressed out lifestyle – we had a terrible accicent that made me re-think everything I believed about horse-human-relationships once again. But it seemed to not have been enough.

I had a desire for more, so I fully went for it as soon as I had recovered from my injuries. This involved moving countries and changing jobs, which I thought would make everything better.

I struggled and hit a wall, because the job didn’t give me any fulfilment whatsoever. Yes, I was helping horses, but the job was a complete distaster. It took me a few more years and a few more jobs .. even a near-death experience from all the overwork, overwhelm and sustained burnout .. until I made a huge discovery.

The way I treated and lead myself was reflected in the way my horses and I interacted on a daily basis. It sounds so simple and seems so obvious, but when you’re in the thick of it, you do not always see very clearly.

Since then, I have re-started my business and I am working on numerous exciting projects that energise me, I keep my horses at home in my own paddock paradise and have the horse-human-connection of my dreams with all three of my horses. They all come and seek me out whenever and wherever they see me, because they now love to be in my energy (without a bribe!!)!

Ok, listen, you’re sitting at your computer, or maybe on your phone… and you’re reading this today for reason. Something in your life or horse-human-relationship isn’t perfect, and you want more. Just like I did! And you’ve heard how this works. And you know that IT IS possible to turn your dreams into reality, love yourself unconditionally, be the ‘YOU’ you’ve always wanted to be AND have an incredible connection with your horse no matter what. So let me ask you… does that sound like something you’d want to start to take action on? Because right now you have the chance to grab the roadmap that shows you exactly how.

I’m excited to be able to introduce you to my BRAND NEW online course called Flow vs. Force. It’s a step-by step blueprint that shows you exactly what you need to do to eliminate self-doubt, unlock your potential… and live your life AND horse-human-connection the way you always believed you could.


Module 1: Trust the NIGGLE:

In this first module we will look into that niggling feeling – you know THAT (!) feeling – which fuels the thought of “I want more”. But rather than letting it drag you down, you will learn how to use this as your FUEL.

Module 2: The NOW:

Then in module two, we take a close look at the present moment – meta perspective! We will figure out some of your belief systems and eradicate the ones that do not serve you any longer so you can step into your full power!

Module 3: Your ENVIRONMENT:

In module 3, we dive into your environemnt and discover how a few small and simple changes can help you feel more energised rather than leaving you depleted.

Module 4: WHAT IF?:

Then by module 4, you’ll be ready to trust that gut instinct and start to paint your future bright.

Module 5: Your SELF – Mindset Mastery:

In module 5 I’ll show you how to quickly and easily conquer your fears and silence your inner critic so you can gain confidence and reach your full potential.


In module 6 we look at how to get the horse-human-connection of your dreams and what that actualy means. You’ll learn all about how to connect on a deeper level using simple “tricks” that yield big results.

Module 7: Your HORSE:

Then, in module 7, we look closely at your horse’s environment – meta perspective! By the end of this module you will have valuable insight as to how you can improve equine welfare sustainably and without too much hassle or cost. This in itself is a huge win for your horse!

Module 8: Mindset & Horses:

In module 8 we dive into what it means to detect flow or force and how this links into your own mindset when it comes to horses. This module is one of my personal favourites, as we all share our individual videos and stories to learn from another! 🙂

Module 9: Intuition & Connection:

By module 9 we will have re-defined what intuition and connection mean and how this translates into everyday interaction with your own horse. I am so excited you can now start living it!


The final module 10 is probably the most powerful… and this really is my secret weapon to attract, create, and live the most extraordinary life you ever imagined. There are no limits!

What’s included:


Live calls in our private & workshop specific FB group. These video lessons will guide and direct you towards more clarity on your own horse-human-connection. You will have access to the videos afterwards in your very own membership area to dive back in whenever you feel like it.

Journal Prompts

Get implementing straight away by locking in everything you have learned. The journal prompts are designed to help you reflect after each lesson.


Find accountability and support from like-minded people in our community. You don’t have to do this alone. We are always right beside you. Share your thoughts, hopes, goals, wins and breakthroughs during our time together. I’ll be hopping in and out of the comments to best support you.

Free Guide

Receive my free guide on 5 easy to implement steps which will help to improve your horse-human-connection straight away.

"HOW TO" Videos

Piece it all together with the “How To” Video Guides on each module, in order to implement everything in the practical realm with your horse – no matter where you both stand right now.

1:1 Mentoring

OPTIONAL – book an exclusive 1:1 Mentoring package or video analysis on top. This is for you, if you wish to improve specific areas for yourself or your horse.

PLUS, when you enroll today… you’ll also get:

BONUS 1: 30-MINUTE ONBOARDING CALL – I will personally connect with you before we start the workshop to find out exactly where you’re at and how I can best serve YOU!

BONUS 2: LIVE EXPERIENCE – I will only hold this workshop live in this scope once. If you book now you will get live access from 10th January and are literally able to shape this workshop with me, asking all of your questions and getting instant personal feedback.

BONUS 3: REVCEIVE MY FREE GUIDE to kickstart your horse-human-connection and get into the vibe of this space instantly.

So, at this point, you may be starting to wonder if a BLUEPRINT that can deliver all of this is going to be expensive. And who can blame you? That kind of power should be right?

And even though I could easily charge several thousand Euros for this training and it would be totally worth it… I’m not actually going to do that.

Right now, you can get the entire “Flow vs. Force” experience along with all of the bonuses, for just a one-time, single, secure payment of only 111€. Click the ‘Enrol Now’ button below and get started today.

Just so we’re clear: THIS REALLY IS A UNIQUE EXPERIENCE – Flow vs. Force is created live with you:

Have you ever wondered why certain things won’t work with your horse, despite all your conscious efforts?

Why they keep saying no to the same thing over and over again?

Have you tried to get your horse to listen to you, but to no avail?

Do you often feel like all you do is bringing food… and that’s it?

This is exactly where my programme Flow vs. Force will help you to understand yourself and your horse better.

We will uncover underlying thought processes, motivations and common misunderstandings between you and your horse.

It will help you in putting your horse and yourself first again and establish the true connection that you always desired and deserve.

By the end of this workshop you will gain valuable awareness of:

• Your inner self

• Your horse’s personality

• Patterns that you may follow (which don’t help you out)

• Different mindset practices


Rather than forcing your way through each session you will be on your way to find your own individual (AND unique!) balanced, mindful and lasting connection with your horse. All from ease and flow.


If that sounds like something you would love to work towards — this workshop is for you.

Starting on Monday, January 10th 2022, we will have regular live sessions in our private FB group over the course of the workshop — All questions allowed.

This safe space will be our special container for the duration of our workshop and a place to motivate each other.

You can post videos and photos and receive valuable feedback for your individual journey. Make it unique for yourself!

The recordings of this programme will be available to you afterwards, so you can check back and take bits of information as you need them.


Click the link below to sign up! 

I so look forward to meeting you in there!



What my students say:

Svea & Fiete

I realised that I wanted to control too many aspects in the daily interaction with my young gelding. I was aware of that, but never could have imagined how a simple mindset shift would change us for the better!

Lara & King

Steffi really helped me to let go of the fear of failing at anything with my horse. I now know that we have everything it takes to do whatever we want to achieve. Thank you!

Nathalie & Smarty

With the help of Steffi I have gone from horse newbie to stable owner in just two years. The amount of empathy and knowledge Steffi was able to bring into our lives is just incredible and I will be forever grateful to all the eye-opening moments. Here’s to many more joy-filled years for Smarty and me!